by Ella Patterson
Enjoy luxurious treatments in the comfort and convenience of your home with the same details that you experience in a spa.
Everyone likes to be touched in that special kind of way. And although we love massages, they are a thousand times more enjoyable when done by a sexy lover. Massages can be used for anything from calming your nerves from a tough day at work to getting primed for a relaxing evening with your partner.
To prepare for this wonderful in-home excursion, you’ll need a few mood setters and techniques. Below are some suggestions that will help spruce up your nights of rubdown heaven.
Set the Environment
Close the lights and ignite lots of same-scent candles. Again, aromatherapy can be a big payoff, but select something that is lightly scented and neutral. If you like, you can even burn some incense to create a more relaxing environment.
Wrap yourself in a towel. Warm some oil in your hands and work the tendons at the back of the neck with your fingertips. Gently rub the arms and shoulders. Rub the temples slowly in circular motions and massage the jaw area since it usually contains a lot of tension.
Try rubbing yourself first. Rub your shoulders, hands, wrist, knees, legs, ankles, etc. It will make you feel more in the mood. It will also help you prep your hands for your partner.
Do’s and Don’ts
Before getting started read this section to your partner. It will help inform him of the do and don’ts of administering a pampering massage.
After reading this section together lye in the nude (or semi-nude) with your stomach down on the bed and make sure you’re in a comfortable position. Smooth the oil over the entire back in wide, smooth strokes with the flat part of the palm. Try not to knead the body too intensely because it may end up causing more pain than comfort.
Rub slowly and deeply, remembering to be continuously sensual. Devote all the time in the world to the person you are massaging. Make it very personal. Reach out to him and assure him that he can touch you whenever he wants.
When massaging, work your way down from the back of the neck to the shoulders. Don’t squeeze too hard around the neck area because you may end up causing an unwanted choking sensation. If you’re working the shoulders, be careful not to squeeze the collarbones with the muscle because it’s an agonizing sensation.
Stretch out the arms and massage the biceps lightly with your fingertips. Work the back on either side of the spinal cord, but never push deeply on the spine itself. Use upward strokes laterally along the spine until you reach the tailbone. Feel free to tease the area around the base of the spine because it contains many sensitive nerve endings.
Rubbing the Right Way
While you’re rubbing, lean over and let your chest rub against his back ever so slightly. Let other parts of your body rub against him while in the midst of your massage. From time to time exhale slowly and when you’re about to end the session, nibble on the ear. By the time you’re done rubbing the body down, there will be much more than just rubbing on the mind.
After you’ve done the back and arms, work your way down to the legs, especially the inner thighs because they are incredibly sensitive. The legs should be given special care. You don’t have to be as cautious as with the back, but still remain gentle. Rub the legs one section at a time, starting at the thighs, moving to the calves and finally ending at the feet. Don’t stay on the feet too long or it will cause sleepiness.
Massages are used for anything from calming after a tough day at work to getting primed for some enthusiastic lovemaking.